Valanne, 37

Well I am 5'4 inches, coca cola body type. flat stomach, dark brown eyes, fun easy going but have a lot of energy alwaYS. I want to finally find a man whom I can relate to. I love festivals, music(like everything from cher to kate perry,mozart,gospel cds, rap,r&b, britney spears. I come from a very abusive family and I do blame that on why I got what I got. If I didn't have to run away all the time to get comfort I know I would've been fine. So if any of you can relate to that, cool, let's talk about it, just please don't take it too seriously,life goes on. I really desire a relationship that's healthy and I don't know who wouldn't after catching this scummy disease. On the other hand though, I am a very clean person but I am human also. I just act like I don't have it. I want someone who is genuine, real, good looking,charming, laid back* BUT Energetic...I've had men in the past be laid back but it seems like they got madwhen I was. I don't want to date a hypocrite please! I am good looking strong, with flaws, but I kind of need a good person to fill them in.