Stuckinth80s, 51

...Iam almost 40, was born and raised on the Grand Strand, went in the Army at 17, got out at 28, was an Ocean lifeguard for several years, settled down ,had 2 beautiful children, and discovered over the last few years that my partner of almost 10 years had given me herps. Fortunately it was not passed to our kids, and after we broke up I was man enuff to put my libido in check, in the form of a celibate lifestyle. Iam not a bad looking guy and all, so over the last few years I have had to kinda ignore a few flirts as well as offers to go out on a date twice. It hurt so bad to kill that devil on my shoulder that kept sayin "Cmon, go out, have fun, use protection"...I just couldnt do that to someone ya know, cause that feels so wrong. I havnt told anyone either, so its truly my own demon. Well, I like the beach, I love old time radio shows (especially horror), walking the beach for miles during the witching hour, drinking very strong coffee, and surfing the web. Guess Iam lookin for a fellow night owl thats kinda into some of the same stuff.