im ben. i live in cedar crest (5 miles east of albuquerque). been divorced for over 2 years, and have spent that time reseting all aspects of my life. looking forward to starting things over several levels, and am in a real great spot to do just that

i am a degreed geophysicist that has been living as an artist for the past two 1/2 years selling my art to musicians and displaying in some really cool venues around the country. this is after being in the environmental consultation industry for over 25 years most of which at the vp level or higher. i am a country boy at heart and have good farm since, can fix anything, build anything, invent stuff. tweak stuff all the time.. i guess thats why ive been doing art... i am a father of twins (boy and a girl - non identical

my art is making custom guitars and frames, so i am very interested in music..motely crue, van halen, stevie ray vaughn, lynyrd skynyrd, metallica are my faves,, kinda like al green too. also love animals, and bow hunting

my fantasy, is to find someone now... i mean ... i have not even been on a date in over 2 years. have that person be my friend,, my best friend,, and find a mutual vision for our lives and work hard to make it happen.
anyways i hope you picked up that im honest, and good man, and a lot of fun and kind and compassionate, and funny and friendly, and sensitive, and manly, and honest, and loyal, and smell good, and good with babies and dogs and and made in america!. i am always looking for what i have never found... a rocker gal that im attracted to, that wont sleep around on me, and does what she says...if thats you, maybe we can be more than friends...