I am not good at talking about myself. I am a mother of 2 grown daughters, and have 3 grand babies. I am a student at a local college, in the medical field. I enjoy doing anything in the outdoors. I love to be spontaneous, laugh, and have fun with family and friends. I am looking for someone to share life and its gifts, good and bad times. I want someone who believes in loyalty, honesty, open communication, and trust. I want to find a friend first, then see where things go.
I am a little over weight, wear size 14-not bad since I used to wear a 22. I just joined the YMCA to tone up. I am letting my hair grow out as well.
To be honest, I hate being alone and lonely, but I AM NOT INTO ONE NIGHT STANDS, DRUGS, DRAMA, OR ANY KIND OF MIND GAMES. I am too old for mind games, and want a quiet, drama free life.
Shybutterfly, 59
currently offline
Rural Area, NC, USA
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Looking for my last first kiss.
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'07"
Weight
190 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
television, reading, music, movies, internet, computers, fleamarkets
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
sci-fi, action, comedy, romantic comedy, romance, horror, drama
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
blue
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced, separated
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
currently in college, college grad
Profession
Medical / Health Services
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with parents
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Diet Every Now & Then
Personality
flirt, fun loving, lover, romantic
Individuality
cougar, tattoos
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, mr. right, the yin to my yang, romance, relationship, penpal
My Sign
i was born in march, pisces : feb. 19-march 20
Gender
Female
Music
Country, Progressive Rock, Karaoke, Alternative Rock, Celtic
Hair Style
layered
Fitness & Sports
walking, swimming, pilates, hiking, aerobics, dancing, bowling
Health Related
minor health issues
Looking for
Movies
action, indie, romance, romantic comedy, horror, drama, comedy, sci-fi, bollywood
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
gray, green, hazel, glass, brown, blue, black
Hair Color
red, black, a little gray, auburn, bald, light brown, blond, dark brown
Their Ethnicity
Caucasian, Mixed Race, Native American
Do they smoke?
only when I drink, daily, no - open to dating smokers though, socially, no - will not date a smoker, electronic cigarettes
Do they drink?
no, socially
Personality
fun loving, intellectual, jock, lover, pirate, professional, redneck, romantic, thrifty, tree hugger, flirt, extrovert
They are looking for
travel companion, the yin to my yang, soulmate, something REALLY hot, romance, relationship, penpal, miss right, dating, conversation
Gender
Male
Music
Hip Hop, Hard Rock, Karaoke, Pop, Post Rock, Dance, Progressive Rock, R and B, Rock, Techno, Trance, Country, Celtic, Alternative Rock
Fitness & Sports
bowling, dancing, fencing, hiking, martial arts, pole dancing, rock climbing, rowing, running, surfing, swimming, tai chi, volleyball
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