Mjoe28, 61

ME: I'm a 46-year-old professional... decent, fun loving, average to pretty good-looking guy of Okinawan/Irish descent with a busy but flexible work schedule & social life. I am recently & amicably separated, and will most definitely be getting divorced as soon as it is mutually convenient (this does not translate to any form of a reconciliation). And, although my nine-year marriage did not work out, I remain upbeat and optimistic about the prospect of finding a special someone who shares my joys & sensibilities. I am fiercely loyal and monogamous which means I've been out of the dating scene for quite a while, so I long for that special intimacy that grows from chemistry, trust and mutual respect.

YOU: Average to attractive (sorry if this seems shallow but physical attraction is a must) with extra points for a quirky but loveable personality. You should be someone able to laugh at the absurdity of it all while you fight the good fight. Someone who appreciates the rain as happily as they celebrate the sun. You are committed to your work but are able to recognize the joy of coming home...you are educated but not a know-it-all, secure but not a snob...if this sounds like you, please respond.