Femme4masc, 45

I like caring for the people I love in the ways that matter to them; understanding deeply and feeling understood is important to me. When someone trusts me, I don't take it lightly. I'm a thoughtful planner, rarely impulsive. I appreciate emotional/general-life stability.

Definitely a femme bottom, but don't need to be a pillow princess. Prefer to give at least a little to a masc top - happy for more, if comfortable for you. Into some D/s, nothing extreme. Ultimately wanting a monogamous LTR.

I am a great listener, perceptive and empathic. Probably too sensitive, doesn't take a lot to upset me, but also doesn't take much to make me happy. I seek out authenticity, and value quality over quantity n almost everything. Don't love being the center of attention.
I am an introvert, so my social battery runs out fairly quickly, except when I'm with people I'm very close to. Only a really great trip can entice me to leave my own bed behind for long. I WFH and sometimes realize I haven't left the house in a few days - and that doesn't bother me at all. Work is financial compliance management and...my bosses know they can rely on me, but I never confuse work with life. I enjoy spending time with my niblings, but I'm not a parent and probably not compatible with a parent of small children. I love animals, especially all dogs; vegetarian + fish, but you do you. Trying to meditate every day/cultivate stillness. I believe in the divine, and post-death continuity, but am not religious. Row 3-4 times/week, and taking reasonably good care of myself, I think. If you've gotten this far, I probably don't need to say this, but I'm in very red SW FL, so I will...noooo MAGA. I like documentaries, novels, nature if its not too hot, cold brew coffee, lazy Sundays, inside jokes, history, psychology, talking about things that matter, antiques, raw cookie dough, binging true crime, the smells of rain and hardware stores. Occasion