Boonez9, 57

responsible, relieved and ready to start my life. Im so happy to find this site. I am seperated and working on a divorce. Was wondering if I would ever find someone due to my little secret. I was on another site and had many responces there but I was afraid to meet anyone because oh IT ! I would not become close to someone without telling her about it so I never let myself become close to anyone. Im a very tall guy and go to the gym five times a week. I have been eating good and working out for about three months with great results. I have known about my problem for about seven years. Im fortunate that I dont have many problems with it. As hard as it was to do I told my wife as soon as I found out. I have been very cautious with it, stayed on meds and my wife never contracted it. By the way, I didnt contract it cheating on my wife and my problem had nothing to do with my divorce, as a matter of fact I was the one who wanted the divorce. We both realize that a divorce is the only way and we get along just fine for now. I am not a jealous person. I have been through some tragic things early in life and have always realized that if you are with someone and you know its the one then there should be no jealousy. If you cant trust each other then there is something wrong anyway, its not the real deal ! I dont mind if the person does something without me, I think you should have some interest of your own. I dont think its very healthy for a relationship to be with each other all the time. Dont get me wrong, I want to be with the person I care about most of the time but I do some things without her and she should do the same. However when I am with her she will receive my full attention and will be treated like a queen. I enjoy nearly all outdoor activities and spending time with family and friends. I am not into the bar scene anymore, been there, done that, just dont really enjoy it too much anymore. I have a very stressful job but once im home I forget about it till im back at work, you have to take a break from work .