Bbwmuslimah, 41

Cuddle in intensity, pure love & connection! I'm loving, kind & financially practical though not cheap. I achieve quality in a responsibly feasible way. I'm able to prioritize & manage long/short term goals, growth, success, stability, comfort & financial freedom. I keep a very small circle of friends & our business is ours not theirs. I give real unbiased, tailored non generalized advice that focus on Deen, problem solving, conflict resolution/ overall resolve, logic, rationality/reason & compromise. I'm honest, creative & resourceful. Though mostly shy/quiet I can adapt/liven up gatherings as the mood/appropriate circumstances presents itself. I prefer intimate settings & being at home more! The way I see it we pay for a roof & various amenities under it so why not enjoy it. I'm seeking a mature, masculine muslim who's thoughtful, assertive, intelligent, articulate, reserved though engaging/ moderately social, loyal, clean, dapper/well groomed, structure oriented, mildly aggressive, affectionate & appreciative. Who's serious when necessary but balances humor & light-heartedness. Also someone who's competent enough to act on their spouse's behalf during their absence. For that a person has to be interested in actually getting to know their spouse outside of bed. A trip once in awhile & date nights regularly is a must! Balance of faith, prayer, trust, communication, regimented/ scheduled outings along with spontaneous activities builds a lasting structure for love. Keep in mind I'm not a gold digger so practicality is acceptable within reason. As far as travel I don't like flying & I kind of already have a vacation destination I prefer so I hope my future love would be ok with that. My objective is quality time while not taking myself or my spouse out of our comfort zone.
I'm not a glutton for attention or a show off & I'm seeking the same. Marriage is a safe haven we should be able to trust that both parties are not committing extramarital affairs that could effect health, emotional state & wellbeing.