Turn Ons: has kid(s), successful, determination, creativity, a motivator, considerate, believer in God, sense of humor, intelligent, great smelling cologne, knows how to dress, sweet eyes, nice smile, cuddly, outgoing, honest...?
Turn Offs:rushes getting s----l, "clingy", procrastonator, liar/game player, selfishness, smoking, no common interests or goals, personalities don't click, serious all the time or inmature and irresponsible (I'm playfu yet responsible, I know how to balance it)...?
Life should only be better when you have a partner, not a drag. I want my partner to be there building memories and experiencing new things with me. I want us to go places, do things, laugh at ourselves & each other, comfort one another, help find solutions together. I'm not big on arguing, if we get mad, let's get some space & time to think & then come back and deal with it. I also want my partner to do things without me and I do things without them. Go have time with your friends or alone, we shouldn't be around each other all the time lol. Like I said, I'm very honest and feel that if we've got good communication, security/reassurance, then we have trust. With all this, I trust what you say until I'm given a reason not to.
