Entrapment

[toriboo]

Did anybody feel like they was entrapped into dis situation!! I feel as if I was and after I found out he played dumb! After da doc told him it wasn't in my blood yet he felt stupid bcause he knew it was my first outbreak n he knew he couldn't blame it on me! I think he lied 2 me about having something n he knew he was suppose to use a condom n e ways but he forced himself in me a lil n I had 2 push him bk n made him put it on! N E ways I think he knew he had it from da jumpoff!!! Its sad how ppl are so mean and nasty!!!!

MS DIVA

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`Condoms do not prevent spreading of herpes. I was lied to as well " I'm clean" " You can trust me" etc. A lot of people knowingly spread herpes I belive way more than is documented. It is easy to tell the doc you never had any symptoms when you know you did. I have met men that in fact have gh and know they it and me being kind enough to have the talk they deny it but you can tell by their reactions that they have it too. Or seeing a man undress or dress and they clearly have it yet deny it...even after I admit I have it too! Most people probably 90% or more know they have it and out of those 90 to 97% rather spread it or risk spreading it. I have had more than one man tell me on a non H site that they "cured" it lol or that they have it under control and can date freely..SHAME!

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`I hae slept with one woman since i knew i had it, and i used protection, and yes a condom is effective 99% effective in preventing ANY std if used correctly. I didnt tell her I had it because i never intended to go into a relationship with her, and i made sure that i didnt sleep with her when i was having an outbreak. I told her afterwards and she was understandably upset with me but more concerned about me and how it affected me. I withheld info because i was ashamed, and thought people would see me as nasty because i got it. I will never do something like that again, because i dont want to risk spreading it...thats why i have been looking for a woman who is already infected. The drawback is that in my country i have realised (and this is not stereotyping all women here, my apologies if it seems that way) infected women start doing whatever they wanna do instead of chillin out. I've been told that i'm emotionally unstable, and i think i have reason to be seeing all that i have been through. It is really a shame that people deliberately spread this disease (both men and women). So i'm still chilling out, riding solo. Looking for people infected with this in my country isnt easy, majority are very secretive about it, and those who arent have grown cold (for good reason) and they have decided to have a S-- partner instead of trying their hands at a serious relationship. None of the females i slept with that i asked if they had anything admitted to having anything, and i know it must have been one of them, so somebody clowned me bigtime. People are free to be whoever they wanna be and do whatever they wanna do, so i dont feel bad or treat anybody bad because they dont want to have a relationship with me. I just treat them like friends.

[toriboo]

`Well I was dating the man that gave me the disease and swear up n down that he didn't have anything, that is until I was diagnosed! We been on and off every since December and I have guys still hitting on me everyday. Even when me and him not together I don't even talk to the guys that do be trying to get with me. I don't want the wrong person to know and tell everybody. I'm just scared to talk to anybody else and I'm worried that if it doesn't work out with him, although we trying to make it work, that I'm going to end up alone. I always wanted to get married and have more kids and it just seems like everything I hoped for is crushed all because of a lie that he said. He told me before we slept together and while we was dating that he had been to the doctor 2 months ago, afterward he changed it up and said he never went; therefore, I I know he lied! N all of us are not trying to spread it I got to much of a good heart to wish this on anybody, and I will never come to the point of wanting to make people lives miserable because mine is. Which I don't think my life is bad because I got a son who love me and God on my side. N I'm thankful that it was Herpes and not HIV!!!!!!!!!!

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bluskyy wrote: `I hae slept with one woman since i knew i had it, and i used protection, and yes a condom is effective 99% effective in preventing ANY std if used correctly. I didnt tell her I had it because i never intended to go into a relationship with her, and i made sure that i didnt sleep with her when i was having an outbreak. I told her afterwards and she was understandably upset with me but more concerned about me and how it affected me. I withheld info because i was ashamed, and thought people would see me as nasty because i got it. I will never do something like that again, because i dont want to risk spreading it...thats why i have been looking for a woman who is already infected. The drawback is that in my country i have realised (and this is not stereotyping all women here, my apologies if it seems that way) infected women start doing whatever they wanna do instead of chillin out. I've been told that i'm emotionally unstable, and i think i have reason to be seeing all that i have been through. It is really a shame that people deliberately spread this disease (both men and women). So i'm still chilling out, riding solo. Looking for people infected with this in my country isnt easy, majority are very secretive about it, and those who arent have grown cold (for good reason) and they have decided to have a S-- partner instead of trying their hands at a serious relationship. None of the females i slept with that i asked if they had anything admitted to having anything, and i know it must have been one of them, so somebody clowned me bigtime. People are free to be whoever they wanna be and do whatever they wanna do, so i dont feel bad or treat anybody bad because they dont want to have a relationship with me. I just treat them like friends.



You DID risk spreading it. You should tell period it is their body and they should have the CHOICE to risk it. You know how many people have contracted gh from people like you? thinking condoms help 99% NO! That is only with bacterial and fungal diseases. Look it up; do a lot of reading here and there from many sources. Also many people SPREAD it thinking they can't spread it when they are not having an outbreak.

[gideon69]

`Sweethonesty is right, sadly women are right most of the time ,lol but blushyy if your story of how you got it is tru then I feel your pain.

[dbailey66]

`It is sad...how people can lie about it...but god see's everything and he will take care of them... i say keep your head... we will all have our happiness one day ;0... im open to chat anytime also

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dbailey66 wrote: `It is sad...how people can lie about it...but god see's everything and he will take care of them... i say keep your head... we will all have our happiness one day ;0... im open to chat anytime also



I know I'm not innocent...dont know people (including myself) do stupid things...I just really dont...this web chat is also rubbish, because web based communities arent real communities because theres no real contact, no real heart-to-heart. I feel like signing off from this website.