it was coming...

[vivi808]

well i'm newly diagnosed and i'd say that I feel really bad about it but overall i knew it was coming... hopefully that's all i got and that should protect me from now on.
I've always been very free in terms of s----lity, always ready for some fun rides. I've been willing to change lately but too late, it is now the time for it. I've been diagnosed and now it is for life... I won't spread that virus as much as i can.
So yes my next special person will have to accept my herpes and the risk that goes with it and he will have to be fidel because there are other things out there that are scarier that herpes.
My first need now is to understand how to stay social without the risk of spreading the virus (i did not go out since i've been diagnosed).
I will also tell my gynecologist that she should propose the HSV test anytime she can as if it is so spread out why i've never been proposed a HSV test... So basically, i'd like to take actions for people to be more aware of SDTs and the inutility of the condoms for preventing STD's infections and also supporting any research on developing a vaccine would be great...

vivi

[toriboo]

`Any s----l activity have consequences if the person are not cautious or not. This include a wide variety of people from single to married because there are alot who are not true. We are very fortunate because it could of been HIV and that's a deadly virus. Anyways don't stop living your life because of herpes, for you can be very social without having s--. Just remember to not be ashame to open up when u meet a good person that you think you might to give a try, but make sure they know your personality first before you tell them. If they turn you down don't get down and depressed there are plenty of man that will accept you for you and not your disease.