anyone still there?

[nowhereman88]

So I joined this website in hopes to find someone who at least relates to what im dealing with and can talk to about. But it seems that no one is active here. Im in the Nashville area, if you are too you should hit me up because it'd be nice to have a friend.

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`i believe everyone is a lil shy or perhaps doubtful that this site may actually help in some way.

How long have u had this lil devil we call hsv?

im jus learning of it and thus far its been a story changer.

Lost the woman who i will dear call my true love, normal dating seems a thing of the past and the feeling of regret is ever present when the topic is rubbed.

However i have found inner strength knowing that life goes on, smile and be thankful its not worst because yes my friend it could be!
Id focus on becoming a person that echo's happiness and take warmth in friends family and if so lucky ur significant other.

Life is beautiful

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``i believe everyone is a lil shy or perhaps doubtful that this site may actually help in some way.

How long have u had this lil devil we call hsv?

im jus learning of it and thus far its been a story changer.

Lost the woman who i will dear call my true love, normal dating seems a thing of the past and the feeling of regret is ever present when the topic is rubbed.

However i have found inner strength knowing that life goes on, smile and be thankful its not worst because yes my friend it could be!
Id focus on becoming a person that echo's happiness and take warmth in friends family and if so lucky ur significant other.

Life is beautiful

[nowhereman88]

`I found out I've had it about a month and a half ago. At the time i really thought my life was over, was severely depressed. But I find that it doesn't actually bother me anymore. The only thing is I want to find a girl ya know, but i'm so afraid about passing it on. I've thought a lot about it. Even if she said she was ok with the fact that I had it, and one day she got it..I'd feel awful. People always agree to things without fully thinking of the consequences when they have feelings for someone. And I don't want someone to resent me later for it.

Then finding someone on here seems like a bust so far, because its not very active.

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`Hi...this site does seem kinda dead...but I think its because others see it as dead n leave. I am not on line often, but I know what you mean. People will agree to something and not think of it until its late, I would feel awfull if I passed this on to someone. What if it didn't work out you know then there would be one more with it. As it is without it it is complicated to meet someone n now with it it's harder. But if you want to chat I'm here!!!

[nowhereman88]

Ah well thank you! Its nice to see there are at least two others that are active on this site haha.

I just don't even know how I'd go about telling someone that doesn't have it. I am a really open person and very nice, but honestly if a girl were to tell me that she had it (before I got it) I wouldn't want to go any farther into a relationship with her. I wouldn't disown her or anything, but I wouldn't want to risk myself. So knowing that about myself, It is really scary to even think about telling someone else.

Also, i'm only 22 so I'm not exactly ready to just settle down. But I feel that with this, I have to take what I can get, in a way. I wish that it didn't have such a bad stigma attached to it. Because honestly, the actual disease isn't that horrible. The first outbreak was the worst and for me that wasn't even that bad. After the first, i've hardly noticed it. If more people knew that, I think it wouldn't be so bad. But in the public eye, everyone cringes when they hear the word, hell I do too.