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Hello. I was reading all of yalls replys and i have to agree... it does get easier as time goes on... this condition isnt a death sentence... and i understand it took me a while to figure that out for myself. There are other people out here that has this and half of them dont even know it... We are all here for support and if anyone needs to talk yall feel free to email me. I have to say i thought my dating life was over with but i met my boyfriend who i am madly in love with on this site... yall keep your head up... and please believe God wouldnt put anything on you that you couldnt handle
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`I got the news two months ago that my boyfriend gave this to me. I was so angry because he said he was clean. I had the flu like symptoms bad and then noticed the sores. When I confronted him and asked if there was any way he could have this he got upset with me. Well I immediately went to the doctor and the sample they took tested positive and my bloodwork was neg so I know he gave it to me. He said he got test after and had the antibodies in his blood. Well we split up not long ago because there was a lot of tension after I found this out and he wasn't supportive when I needed him. I still have a lot of anger about this and a lot of fear that no one will want me now. I'm hoping it gets better.
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`i am newly diagnosed as well. I had S-- with a guy who blatantly lied to my face about his status before insisting we not use a condom during s--.my fault for being so naive. ive had it for about 3 weeks now. im almost through my first incredibly painful breakout which just happened to fall on the same week as my period. im devastated and i feel like i have nowhere to turn, since the person i was pretty sure i was going to marry left me because I am now positive. i feel alone, and angry, and i feel like giving up on everything. i feel like damaged goods and i shouldnt even try to find anyone anymore. i just hope that maybe i can find what im looking for here.
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I used to be confidant and feel beautiful. Now I feel like I have to be completely guarded... I get hit on a lot.. it just makes me sad. I feel like I will never find love. I dont know. I feel betrayed.
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alligator21 wrote: `i am newly diagnosed as well. I had S-- with a guy who blatantly lied to my face about his status before insisting we not use a condom during s--.my fault for being so naive. ive had it for about 3 weeks now. im almost through my first incredibly painful breakout which just happened to fall on the same week as my period. im devastated and i feel like i have nowhere to turn, since the person i was pretty sure i was going to marry left me because I am now positive. i feel alone, and angry, and i feel like giving up on everything. i feel like damaged goods and i shouldnt even try to find anyone anymore. i just hope that maybe i can find what im looking for here.
I just found out a week ago... I am going through my first break out and am on my period... I feel pretty alone.. only my mom knows.
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Downtroddn wrote:
I just found out a week ago... I am going through my first break out and am on my period... I feel pretty alone.. only my mom knows.
i too was on my period when i got mine. it was awful and everyday it makes me sad to think about it .
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I was recently diagnosed just this last September. My then boyfriend of three years had it and didn't tell me until I got diagnosed. He had it since 19, I felt like my life was over. People treat you like you have the plague. I have told some guys that I have dated some don't care. But what helps is educationing them on how I got it and that it is more common than they think. I am hoping to find that person I can settle with. I was so desperate I even took the loser back that gave it me back and almost married him. But instead I dumped him, and two weekslater he married the person he had been cheating on me with and she had it to he gave it to her. I was there was a way to report someone like him. I have faith that it will get better it is just going to be hard to find that one person who will understand what you are going through...
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