living with HSV (herpes) what many hav asked

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hay i seen that u want to get some incite on how to go about telling some one u have HSV. well with me it was very hard at first its not easy to come out an just say it,so first thing i did was learn about hsv an how i can give it to some one.i found after telling some one, some times they didn't have the first clue to really what is was.it was one of the hardest things to just say to some one,but i also found that by be comfortable with the fact that its not going away an it apart of me for the rest of my life an accepting it for what it is.It is very hard but u find that when u can accept it that it makes it just a little easyer to say.when i first told some one that i had it i thought that they would hate me or not want me,but i found with most people that's not the case, people can be accepting to it an wouldn't turn u away but that dont happen in all cases. i had a few girls turn me away.i had met this girl an i know she wanted me just as much as i wanted her but when i told her we were the bast of friends it hurt to see her turn me away, but i got over it an didn't let that stop me from being able to try agian or be scared to tell people.its never easy an i wish i could say that it was,but learn to be ok with it an remember who u are an know what u are talking about when it comes time to tell some one,an always protect your self (condoms) an your partner take your meds (if or when u get them they help) an love your self for u. many people have it 1an4 men an 1an5 women so dont let it bring u down an go out an enjoy life.....

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